I have a 21 month old daughter who is great, however the first 6 months of her life was not easy. She was diagnosed with reflux at 10 weeks but had probably been suferring from it for at least 4 weeks. In that time she cried for most of the day which drove me crazy. I was then diagnosed with Post Natal depression and went on anti deprsessants and also attended group sessions which were fantastic. I am off the depressants and feel fine now. My husband and I are thinking of having a second baby but I am scared about suffering depression again and my husband is not sure he can cope with a depressed wife and 2 children. So we are now thinking that 1 child will do, but I am really torn as I think it would be nice to have a sibling for my daughter. Any thoughts?